This is Jigney Bhachech, I am CEO of Opal Infotech. On my Birthday I want to give few messages. Thank you very much all of you for wishing on my birthday. As such some one told about gardener, I would like to tell you something about gardener. If one big garden is given to a gardener to develop beautifully, now what he would do? He plants his favourite flower plants, vegetables or fruit plants, decorative plants, short living and long term plants like mango tree to make the garden appearance wonderful. But sometimes it happens that his lapses or untouched areas may grow useless bush, toxic plants or wild tree unknowingly during the process. Wrongful way of cultivation and nutrient deficient fertilizer can also badly impact the growth of good plants that turns into the unexpected result and many a times it happens, he is unable to remove that poorly grown tree/plant or toxic plant from its location, as it may impact beauty of other good plantation too. This ugliness looks like an iron nail in a golden plate. Now what is left for him? He will sit under his favourite or decorative plants and live the rest life. Here we end up this story and concluding that our mind is like a garden and we are like a gardener. What types of thoughts and what types of relationship or feelings we build in our mind that we need to suffer entire life.
So it depends on what types of feelings and thoughts you cultivate in your mind, whether positive or negative, it will develop and give results. Some times unknowingly we like toxic relationship and grow them for better expectation but at the end, we get nothing except disappointments but we are helpless, where even we cannot leave it behind. The same way if we give good fertilizer to good relationship, it can give us good results. There are various types of feeling like feeling of love, hate, anger, curiosity, anxiety, fear and so on. Thus you need to be careful while seeding any type of feelings in your mind for cultivation. This is our life and always be mindful that what to put in our mind and that depends on what type of quality thoughts we have.
I am telling you 3 more cases in this regard…
First case: if someone is asking you how you did graduation or completed your study? then what you will tell?…you will tell about your study process like you was taking notes, you was meeting and discussing with your teachers, friends and mentors, you was doing this and that etc…But what you do after getting result that you never tell to people because that doesn’t look important for you as well others because your challenge was over. Your excitement was towards perusing your challenge and to achieve goal. On achieving it is always less important for you except celebration as the excitement gets over.
second case, when we completed marathon run, we always excited to describe our preparations to the people that how we did practice and exercise, what we ate, what precautions we took, how I run to finish and got the medal etc. there after story we never tell to any one that I called to my friends and celebrated etc. Mean to say we tell about our thrill and excitement which are in challenges and not in achievement. Now telling you third case and then we conclude these three.
Third case, if somebody doing love marriage and someone asks about his love story, then he will tell the qualities which he liked in his counterpart, how they met, how their love grew, how they managed their families to get ready for marriage, what troubles they faced and how ultimately they got married etc but after that what happened he will neither tell you nor you are interested to listen.
Concluding part is that our life is in our excitement. Our life finishes when there is no excitement or no challenges in our life. Our achievements only give us satisfaction. On getting any achievement, if we feel that is enough then our life will end up. So in life human gets an old with no age, but due to his capability of getting challenges, excitements and thrills. When we see the elder people, why they look so old, because there is no challenge, no excitement or no thrill in their life.
OUR LIFE MUST BE FULL OF CHALLANGES, EXCITEMENTS AND THRILLS.
EVERYDAY WE MUST WAKE UP WITH A NEW CHALLANGE, A NEW THRILL AND A NEW EXCITEMENT LIKE A CHILD. IF YOU TELL HIM TO TAKE AND WATCH A MOVIE, HOW HE/SHE FEELS WITH EXCITEMENT AND RESPOND? THE SAME THRILLING YOU MUST FEEL IN YOUR LIFE.
Thank You Very Much